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Correction to Connection Reflection Tool

Think back to one moment when a child's home language met a correction, or could have. Work through it step by step, then leave with a reframe, a family question, and one shift to try on Monday. Your notes stay on this device.

You're reflecting on a moment from your own work with a child.

1

Capture the moment

Write down what was said, word for word if you can.

2

Hear the rules

Black Language is rule-governed. Tap any feature you heard to see what the child was saying.

3

What might the child have heard?

For each area, pick the message that's closer to what that moment sent.

Choose one message in each row to see the pattern.

4

Reflect: Notice, Wonder, Affirm, Bridge, Partner

Start with noticing, not the fix. The shift comes from what you see for yourself.

5

Reframe it

Pick a phrase to start from, or write your own. The same moves work with children, families, and providers.

The move I'm using
6

Partner with the family

Use these at intake, during home visits, or at parent conferences.

Home and community language practices aren't preparation for learning. They are learning.

If a family asks you to correct: listen first. The worry behind the request is real and was earned through history. Then explain that home language is a bridge to reading and not a barrier. You'll teach standardized English as an addition to his home language, not a replacement for it.

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One shift, starting Monday

Finish the sentence. Tap a starter for your role if you're stuck.

“On Monday, one thing I will do differently when I hear a child's home language is…”

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My reflection

Copy this into your notes, a coaching log, or a team meeting agenda.